There is something that all loving cat owners have in common; that is the desire to provide everything that their cat needs. Most of us are already familiar with how to feed and perhaps even groom a cat but sometimes, it helps to take a look at the basics. What if I were to tell you that many cat owners do not pick up and hold their cat properly? Would that surprise you? What might even surprise you more is that you might be guilty of the same offenses.
Handling a cat can be done in a number of ways but if you aren’t doing it properly, they might get nervous around you and you won’t enjoy that close bond you desire. It will also tend to make your cat uncomfortable, and none of us want that to happen. By following these 5 tips on handling your cat, you will find that things go a lot better as a result.
If your cat is already nervous around you then you really need to take your time and allow them to warm up to your touch. If they are calm around someone else, have them hold the cat while you give it treats and speak softly to the cat. Touch the cat without lifting them. These gentle methods will help your cat to gain some comfort around you.
Often, we tend to handle the cat like we think they want to be handled. Unfortunately, our cat may have different ideas. Take some time to study the cat and notice how they respond to the different ways you pick them up and hold them. Once you begin to learn their preferences, you can take things to the next level.
The world can be a frightening place when you are a cat in someone’s arms. Cats are naturally capable of being in high areas but they also like being in control. If you are carrying the cat and get close to a drop off of some sort or if the area seems like it could harm the cat, be sure to make the appropriate changes. This can go a long way in helping your cat to be comfortable.
Along with looking for the cat’s comfort zone, try looking for any annoying triggers they might experience as well. Some cats don’t like to be petted, for example and others might not like being cradled. If you find a trigger in your cat, avoid it.
Finally, it may be necessary to realize that some cats don’t like to be picked up and held. Perhaps it makes them feel out of control but for whatever reason, they don’t like it. If that is the case with your feline, then avoid making them uncomfortable in that way. Try petting them when they are on your lap or just spend some time near them until their comfort level increases.